Well what can I say...I've had many tragedies in my life time...For those of you who know me you might know all or some...These tragedies have made me who I am today...I live a hectic life, so I say...I'm a stay at home mom, basically I'm the glue that keeps my family from falling a part...It's kinda fun being home but then again I like to make money so I can spend it...I basically live for my kids, which I know is bad (in a way)...Like my wise Neighbor told me don't live for your kids, they get older, finish school & move away, then what??? So I'm actually going to live by this...Don't get me wrong I still do everything for my family...
Which brings up the subject of Chores...I have a 4 children; ranging from 12 years old to 1 year old...My kids don't do a single chore...I know, I know, bad mommy...This year is the year for change...My 12 year old chores will include cutting the grass, washing cars, cleaning the yard, separating clothes & cleaning his room...My 11 year old chores includes separating & washing clothes plus the dishes & cleaning up her room...My 9 year old chores includes cleaning up his room as well & the living room...As for my 1 year old he just makes the mess...LOL...
I'm going to have to train my 1 year old soon to do what this kids is doing...Got to start him off young so won't have the problems I am having with the other 3...
Back to my life...I can't complain...Hopefully by starting this blog I can get the motivation i need to start a healthier life style...Maybe having to post pics of my progress on here will help me get to my goal weight of 145...Hey I can try...I want to see a difference for my 29th birthday in July...I've lost weight before, I just need to find that rhythm again...You know the beat of your own drum...
If I could look this good after all my kids I wouldn't even think about exercising...I would think more of what clothes can I buy that would fit great on my body...Hey a girl can dream can't she???
I have an amazing husband who support me in anything & everything I do...Very hard to find a man who sticks by his wife...We've been together for 11 years going on 12 years in March...This is a very long time considering my husband & I didn't know each other what so ever when we got together...From the 11 years we have been together we have been married for 4 years (going on 5)...Can't complain, he went by my rules...
Everyone has to know the rules I implemented prior to our commitment:
RULE #1-Promise Ring had to be given, just to make sure he was going to
keep his end of the bargain
RULE #2-Engagement Ring had to be purchased whenever he deemed
was suitable
RULE #3-If we were going to get married he had to do it because he
loved me...Mind you we already had children with each other
RULE #4-Like everyone says once your kids are gone it's only you &
your significant other, so you better be in it for each other & not
the kids
RULE #5-If he didn't want to be in a relationship any more aka separation
or a divorce because he wants to be with someone else he had
to tell me before he actually acted on his impulses...Hey I don't
want to look like an idiot while everyone knows he's with
someone
These were the rules...As of now the rules have been followed...Hey I'm not going to force him to stay if he doesn't want to be here...
Let's see what else can I say???
Not much it's past my bed time...My brain feels fried...I've been up since earlier this morning...So If you want to continue reading go ahead...I'll get the hang of this blogging sooner or later & won't bore ya to death, well I'll try not to...
NIGHT EVERYONE
Which brings up the subject of Chores...I have a 4 children; ranging from 12 years old to 1 year old...My kids don't do a single chore...I know, I know, bad mommy...This year is the year for change...My 12 year old chores will include cutting the grass, washing cars, cleaning the yard, separating clothes & cleaning his room...My 11 year old chores includes separating & washing clothes plus the dishes & cleaning up her room...My 9 year old chores includes cleaning up his room as well & the living room...As for my 1 year old he just makes the mess...LOL...
This is basically what my other look like when you tell them to do something...
Back to my life...I can't complain...Hopefully by starting this blog I can get the motivation i need to start a healthier life style...Maybe having to post pics of my progress on here will help me get to my goal weight of 145...Hey I can try...I want to see a difference for my 29th birthday in July...I've lost weight before, I just need to find that rhythm again...You know the beat of your own drum...
I have an amazing husband who support me in anything & everything I do...Very hard to find a man who sticks by his wife...We've been together for 11 years going on 12 years in March...This is a very long time considering my husband & I didn't know each other what so ever when we got together...From the 11 years we have been together we have been married for 4 years (going on 5)...Can't complain, he went by my rules...
Everyone has to know the rules I implemented prior to our commitment:
RULE #1-Promise Ring had to be given, just to make sure he was going to
keep his end of the bargain
RULE #2-Engagement Ring had to be purchased whenever he deemed
was suitable
RULE #3-If we were going to get married he had to do it because he
loved me...Mind you we already had children with each other
RULE #4-Like everyone says once your kids are gone it's only you &
your significant other, so you better be in it for each other & not
the kids
RULE #5-If he didn't want to be in a relationship any more aka separation
or a divorce because he wants to be with someone else he had
to tell me before he actually acted on his impulses...Hey I don't
want to look like an idiot while everyone knows he's with
someone
These were the rules...As of now the rules have been followed...Hey I'm not going to force him to stay if he doesn't want to be here...
Let's see what else can I say???
Not much it's past my bed time...My brain feels fried...I've been up since earlier this morning...So If you want to continue reading go ahead...I'll get the hang of this blogging sooner or later & won't bore ya to death, well I'll try not to...
